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I Used to Think This Was Vanity
I thought it was vanity. It turns out it was devotion.
Jul 8
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Stephanie Lapre
1
Friday Notes: The IKEA Effect
A living room full of flat-packed boxes, a few mystery screws, and an unexpected lesson about what it means to build a home.
Jul 3
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Stephanie Lapre
1
June 2026
Friday Notes: The Fire Alarm
A wrong turn, an alarm, and an unexpected reminder that sometimes the strongest thing we can do is ask for help.
Jun 26
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Stephanie Lapre
1
February 2026
freight train
Some seasons move like a freight train and then one day, the speed changes and you’re not sure what you’re carrying anymore.
Feb 14
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Stephanie Lapre
1
Fall Forward
Living alone at 47 is less about reinvention and more about learning that quiet doesn’t mean something’s wrong.
Feb 13
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Stephanie Lapre
daydream
Sometimes I call it patience. Sometimes I call it process. Meanwhile, life keeps moving.
Feb 6
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Stephanie Lapre
2
Permission Granted
Turns out I don’t procrastinate, I wait for permission. And healthcare doesn’t always give it.
Feb 4
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Stephanie Lapre
2
January 2026
record player
some beginnings don't need to be played yet.
Jan 21
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Stephanie Lapre
2
The Amazon Cart is Full
I just moved, my Amazon cart is full, and my brain is doing that thing where it narrates everything.
Jan 20
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Stephanie Lapre
1
No Pause Button
Turns out there isn’t always a pause button when the room keeps moving.
Jan 15
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Stephanie Lapre
3
little violinist
Sometimes what feels right is just what we’ve learned to hold.
Jan 7
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Stephanie Lapre
4
Who’s Afraid of Little Red Riding Good?
This is a reflection on politeness, people-pleasing, and the quiet ways being “good” taught me to disappear.
Jan 6
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Stephanie Lapre
2
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